SAMANTHA GROSS
Associated Press Writer

NEW YORK - Talat Hamdani traveled to Mecca to pray that her missing son, an EMT, was safe in the days after 9/11. She held out hope that his Muslim background had led to his detention as a suspect, considering it better than the alternative.


In this Tuesday, Aug. 17, 2010 photo, seated next to portraits of her son Mohammad Salman Hamdani, who was 23 when he died attempting to save lives at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001, Talat Hamdani sits during an interview in New York.
(AP Photo/Bebeto Matthews)


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When part of his body was returned to her - his lower half shattered into 34 pieces - it was final proof he had indeed been killed when Islamic extremists brought down the World Trade Center. As Americans take sides over plans to build an Islamic cultural center and mosque blocks away, Hamdani says it feels personal.


"Why are we paying the price? Why are we being ostracized? Our loved ones died," she said at her Lake Grove, N.Y., home. "America was founded on the grounds of religious freedom," and opposition to the cultural center "is un-American. It's unethical. And it is wrong."


The thousands of relatives of the 2,976 victims have no single representative and no unified voice, even as another 9/11 anniversary approaches. The conflict is dividing a group that in many ways has never been united, with some saying the cultural center would reopen old wounds too close to hallowed ground and others say that opposing it is tantamount to bigotry.

And some, like Vandna Jain, walk a middle ground.

"It is unfair to persecute the group, however, in turn, there should be some respect for the feelings of the people that are forever attached to this site due to their losses," the New City, N.Y., resident, whose father, Yudh, died in the north tower, wrote in an e-mail. "I think people have a right to be upset about it, just as much as people have a right to build a mosque."

Jim Riches, a former New York Fire Department deputy chief whose son, Jimmy, was killed at the trade center, believes the dispute has nothing to do with religious freedom.

"We're not telling them not to practice their religion. ... It's about location, location, location," he said, asking why the mosque couldn't be built farther away from the land that he still considers a cemetery. "It's disrespectful. You wouldn't put a Japanese cultural center at Pearl Harbor."

Liza Murphy feels differently. Her brother, Charlie, died at ground zero, but she says she doesn't lay claim to the sprawling, 16-acre site.

"It's a place where a terrible tragedy took place, but I don't see what makes it sacred," said the Brooklyn resident. "Nine years later, that now belongs to the public. And my brother and his death are private and belong to me."

Murphy says she has no objection to the planned mosque and wouldn't want to judge one group of Muslims based on the actions of another.

But Peter Gadiel says he owes no apologies for singling one group out. Since his son, James, was killed at the trade center, Gadiel has argued publicly that all Muslims should share some collective guilt for what happened on 9/11.

"The fact is that Islam does not coexist well with other religions, and you can't separate that from Islam," the Kent, Conn., resident said, explaining his stand against the mosque. "If that sounds intolerant on my part, that's too bad."

The families' impassioned responses to the prospect of the mosque have influenced the public debate.

Gov. David Paterson has suggested moving the project further away from the trade center site out of respect for opponents' feelings, while Mayor Michael Bloomberg came out in support of the mosque, calling it a test of the separation of church and state.

President Barack Obama has said he believes Muslims have the right to build the Islamic center as a matter of religious freedom, though he's also said he won't take a position on whether they should actually build it.

The imam leading plans for the center on Friday called extremism a security threat in both the West and the Muslim world. Feisal Abdul Rauf made his comments to Associated Press Television News in Bahrain during a Mideast tour funded by the U.S. State Department, but he wouldn't discuss the uproar over the Islamic center.

Relatives of those slain on Sept. 11 have made their diverging voices heard on a number of issues over the years _ from whether to try the suspects in a civilian court to the location of a proposed freedom museum at ground zero that is no longer planned for the site.

Charles Wolf, who lost his wife, Katherine, at the trade center, says emotions among family members are especially raw right now.

"This is anniversary season. It's really, really hard," the Manhattanite said. "Passions are up and this is bringing up a lot of hurt in people."

He says he worries that any decision to respond to public pressure and move the mosque would be used by extremists to paint Americans as intolerant.

"The powers of evil were piloting those airplanes," he said of the Sept. 11 attackers.

Now, with the mosque dispute, "here is where we're falling into the terrorists' trap ... trying to tear each other apart. Good people fighting other good people - does that sound like evil at work?"

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Associated Press writers David B. Caruso and Karen Matthews in New York and Martha Raffaele in Philadelphia contributed to this report.

Copyright 2010 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

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"...let's just rid all of America the Middle East of them pesky Musilims Americans and Jews - that'll fix the problem and stop this debate."

See any similarities there, Luke?
Well said Tom. While we're on the subject, the guy who wants to build at Park51 is a Sufi Moslem. I'd hardly say they are friends with al Queda!

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/30902421/

http://ww4report.com/node/8811

But idiot Americans still think Iran, Iraq, and al Queda and Moslems in general are all the same thing.
Nope- no similiarities- one was a sneak attack (9/11), the other was the World Police flexign their muscle. :-)

See any similiarities there?

Around and around we go Ben....
This whole discussion (and others on the same issue) amazes me.

You have a Bill of Rights in place that (as I understand it) gives the Muslims the right to build their Mosque, wherever they choose. They can (as I understand it) practice whatever religion they want in that said building.

What's left to discuss?

Or it would appear based on the responses thus far, that those rights are only applicable when it suits.

http://www.america.gov/constitution.html?gclid=CMmF1rqi1KMCFQUwbgod...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Constitution

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_religion_in_the_United_States

http://www.america.gov/st/texttrans-english/2009/November/200911101...

http://www.archives.gov/exhibits/charters/bill_of_rights_transcript...

http://www.america.gov/publications/books/being-muslim-in-america.html
Walt, you need to read more. There are many cristian shurches in the holy land. It was the cristians that killed the Myans and Indians and they have built churches where they killed them. A christian killed the people in OK City, they have christian churches there also. The christian held the witch trials, killed the people and then went to their churches there. You rantings are confusing, filled with wrong infromation and not well thought out. Try again.
Do I have to go back to Denmark, my grandpa was UN-USA? Or should I return to Wales, my great grandpa was UN-USA? How about the Poles, the Brits, the Turkes, the Irish, the Swedes they should all go back where they came from because they were UN-USA? My grandpa built a house and helped build his church, should he not have been able to build here because he was UN-USA? My gosh he even spoke Danish until he died, he had two languages, how UN-USA. My UN-USA grandpa even fought in the US Army, should he have gone back where he came from?
I cannot believe that an American would write the trash you just wrote, it is un-American to tell all the people that built this county to go back where they came from. Are you a communist? Do you hate the constitution? Are you a Native American? If not then perhaps you should follow your on advise and go back where you came from, Ireland perhaps. You are anti American and your kind of hatefull talk disgusts me.
My grandpa built a house and helped build his church, should he not have been able to build here because he was UN-USA?
Based on this topic, I think it depends on where the church was built... ;-)
Lutan1, A lot of Americans let their emotions make up how it should be. They let their eyes glaze over and decide to ignore the law, thank goodness for the courts that keep them in line. Many "true Americans" have never laid their eyes on any of the document that you listed. They do not have a clue what the rules of the game are. They just say "how it ought to be".
You might be right Gregory.

Or maybe I just don't get it- I mean I don't have the emotional attachement to the whole event so I look at the debate a bit more objectively and not subjectively.
Well I was addressing Ms Flanagan-Crews, the church was in Utah, but that does not matter. But you get it, you are an Aussie after all. Maybe just a little bit smarter:}
You get it, government built on emotion or religion is going to be bad for someone.
CFD218, we will not be defeated if they build, we win. Because our laws, and we are a country of laws, will have prevailed. Also, don't the American terroists, the KKK, hide just like they are normal, but them kill and destroy Americans, their property and their rights. They make it hard to tell the good guys from the bad.

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