Now I know how a gold fish feels. He now has all the stuff(except the last load). He is now just driving by to check on the house he says. He brings his girlfriend and now together they are stalking me . I think that she drives by when he isn't with her to make sure he is not with me .I should have posted a sign that says "Look into your future".
The way I know that she and he are driving by is we lived at the end of a dead end circle. It is pretty hard to hide a big dodge diesel truck which to this day I have a key in my jewelry box too. I should throw it away but it reminds me of what I never want to do again ,and how never to be that stupid!! I really loved the guy and I know now that I am far better looking and he has to wake up to her face now every morning ( at least when he is home). I had a neighbor that was very good looking that was single. He and I worked out a mutual arrangement because I was starting to get creeped out when I saw the husband and the new girl parked between the houses watching me . The war was on ! If he was going to spy on me I was going to give him a show.This guy ladies was a BABE, younger than me and full of
energy. My yard never looked better. He washed my car almost daily.This guy ran around mostly without a shirt and had the arms and the six pack to die for . We worked out an arrangement that anytime we were being watched they would get a show.MR ATTENTION catered to me. He was not anything that I would ever be with long term but
fun while it lasted. That guy could raise your body temperature in 30 seconds flat and oh was he fun! He lasted until I
found a new place to live. I thought I had found a place that they would not go . OH WAS I WRONG. I moved to a rural little town about 25 minutes South . A one lane road marked one way went in front of my house. I made friends quickly with the neighbor who was also going through a divorce. We would bet Beer on what time of the day they would drive by, the one that was closest to the time won . The other bought the beer that weekend. If you wonder why I made fun of this situation ? let me tell you. I became the girlfriends hobby. She wanted my husband so bad that she needed to make him feel sorry for her, think that she was being picked on.Oh I don't want to be him when he dumps her.She has quite the imagination.I was always getting phone calls from different police agencies saying that I was here and then there and here again.Like I was really interested in what they were doing. I was doing the neighbor still from the old house and way to busy.Talk about a way to get your self confidence back. Having a guy that looks like that really helps!Then he was gone... Thats ok I then met a guy that had been MR UTAH. had this great tattoo on his bicep that was bigger than my leg.OH honey.. then I thought .. I really was not over the man that was putting me through hell but I was doing OK. My husband was albout 5'9,greek,from Wyoming,and quickly losing his hair. I think when I saw him last he had twice the forehead I remember.That was 6 years later. I avoided him and never really looked when he drove by,just saw the truck with the personal firefighter plate.One day before I moved out of my house one of my friends saw his girlfriend driving his truck when she passed the house my friend not knowing what the new girlfriend looked like asked me who the ugly guy was driving my husbands truck ? I giggled and thought YEP he gets to wake up to that every morning! It was hard to feel bad for him.