Merry Christmas, or at least I like to think so.

In a moment of weakness, a non-firefighting blog entry, or at least it's not pure firefighting stuff in the sense of the word. But I digress- I'm standing in my kitchen, watching Caroline and Honora share Shepherd's Pie back and forth across the table (definitely not desired behavior) and glaring at the Christmas lights I have strung from the kitchen to the dining room and across to the living room.

I'm not one to ascribe to conspiracy theories, but it definitely seems as if each of these little strands of twinkling joy all have at least one section out, at which I come to an impasse; to pitch or not to pitch. I mean, part of me says to hell with the throwaway society and I should rescue each and every single one of these $2.89 strands. The other half says, for the hour I work on them, it totals up to roughly what twenty of these things are worth, so just screw it and chuck it in the trash.

I take the time out to stop the girls' banging on the table now (they are banging their milk cups and saying "bah, bah, bah, bah" over and over again, and since it just reached noon, a drink is not advised) then return to this quick post. But as I return to the computer, they engage in a tug of war with the plastic snowman Santa placemats, which could turn ugly (Caroline is all sweetness and light, but Honora is willing to fight to the death, which is admirable in a mixed martial artist, but not in a 18 month old).

I guess you could say the firefighting aspect of this post would have to do with leadership, like in the attempt to save the partially flawed lights is similar to trying to look at the best in each of us and trying to gently fix what is not going right and salvage the entire person. Or it could be that I recommend not having a fire in your home by using cheap-ass lights that are probably just itching to set our beautiful tree on fire. The cynical side of me, however, leans toward the lesson that just when you think you have one problem solved, four others are popping up down the line somewhere. Maybe this story doesn't even have a moral and the lesson is, get to your point early before you lose these readers altogether.

Anyway, think about patience in this holiday season, treasure your lovely moments (like I am treasuring the battle going on right now over the placemat), and try to spread a little peace among you and your loved ones.

As for te lights, I'm going to give it my best shot and try to recover these babies, but I'm thinking, now might be the time to give up the old and plunk down the cash for some of those LED beauties I've had my eye on for a while. Stay safe and I'm sure I'll post SOMETHING more worthwhile before the season is truly upon us.

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Comment by Tiger Schmittendorf on December 20, 2007 at 5:29pm
Merry Christmas Mick -

I'm at the other end of the spectrum. My daughter is 18 - that's years - not months - and my son is 15.

Bad news dude, the tug-o-wars never end, they just get more creative (and childish).

Nonetheless, there are several lessons in your blog. Attempting to achieve patience and peace at Christmas time is a huge one.

Even at their age, they still seem to melt down at holiday time. I don't fully understand it but they're never on their best behavior right before they're supposed to receive presents.

But your blog reminded me to be patient: with them, with my spouse, with my mother-in-law, and even with myself.

So, thanks for the lesson - and the Christmas gift of your blog and the friendships found herein.

PS -
You've motivated me to post a blog on the topic of "perspective" that I wrote for the Buffalo News. I'll put it up soon. Thanks.
Comment by Mary Ellen Shea on December 4, 2007 at 11:21pm
You've never seen the five Shea girls fighting over shower time. It wasn't pretty.
Merry Christmas!
Comment by Mick Mayers on December 4, 2007 at 11:19pm
And trust me, biting is bad too, luckily none of my children have picked up on that or the screaming would be early and often, indeed. Merry Christmas to you as well and thanks for reading.
Comment by Mary Ellen Shea on December 4, 2007 at 5:16pm
I always enjoy reading your posts Mick...some more than others, this one in particular.
Now go get some new light strands before your place goes up like a Roman candle.
By the way, I have four older sisters, and my Dad used to say that watching my sister Peggy and me engaged in pitched battle was akin to watching two starving pitbulls going after the same bloody piece of meat.
We're more mature now and biting sarcasm is our weapon of choice vs. just biting each other.
Happy Holidays~

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