SAMANTHA GROSS
Associated Press Writer

NEW YORK - Talat Hamdani traveled to Mecca to pray that her missing son, an EMT, was safe in the days after 9/11. She held out hope that his Muslim background had led to his detention as a suspect, considering it better than the alternative.


In this Tuesday, Aug. 17, 2010 photo, seated next to portraits of her son Mohammad Salman Hamdani, who was 23 when he died attempting to save lives at the World Trade Center on Sept. 11, 2001, Talat Hamdani sits during an interview in New York.
(AP Photo/Bebeto Matthews)


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When part of his body was returned to her - his lower half shattered into 34 pieces - it was final proof he had indeed been killed when Islamic extremists brought down the World Trade Center. As Americans take sides over plans to build an Islamic cultural center and mosque blocks away, Hamdani says it feels personal.


"Why are we paying the price? Why are we being ostracized? Our loved ones died," she said at her Lake Grove, N.Y., home. "America was founded on the grounds of religious freedom," and opposition to the cultural center "is un-American. It's unethical. And it is wrong."


The thousands of relatives of the 2,976 victims have no single representative and no unified voice, even as another 9/11 anniversary approaches. The conflict is dividing a group that in many ways has never been united, with some saying the cultural center would reopen old wounds too close to hallowed ground and others say that opposing it is tantamount to bigotry.

And some, like Vandna Jain, walk a middle ground.

"It is unfair to persecute the group, however, in turn, there should be some respect for the feelings of the people that are forever attached to this site due to their losses," the New City, N.Y., resident, whose father, Yudh, died in the north tower, wrote in an e-mail. "I think people have a right to be upset about it, just as much as people have a right to build a mosque."

Jim Riches, a former New York Fire Department deputy chief whose son, Jimmy, was killed at the trade center, believes the dispute has nothing to do with religious freedom.

"We're not telling them not to practice their religion. ... It's about location, location, location," he said, asking why the mosque couldn't be built farther away from the land that he still considers a cemetery. "It's disrespectful. You wouldn't put a Japanese cultural center at Pearl Harbor."

Liza Murphy feels differently. Her brother, Charlie, died at ground zero, but she says she doesn't lay claim to the sprawling, 16-acre site.

"It's a place where a terrible tragedy took place, but I don't see what makes it sacred," said the Brooklyn resident. "Nine years later, that now belongs to the public. And my brother and his death are private and belong to me."

Murphy says she has no objection to the planned mosque and wouldn't want to judge one group of Muslims based on the actions of another.

But Peter Gadiel says he owes no apologies for singling one group out. Since his son, James, was killed at the trade center, Gadiel has argued publicly that all Muslims should share some collective guilt for what happened on 9/11.

"The fact is that Islam does not coexist well with other religions, and you can't separate that from Islam," the Kent, Conn., resident said, explaining his stand against the mosque. "If that sounds intolerant on my part, that's too bad."

The families' impassioned responses to the prospect of the mosque have influenced the public debate.

Gov. David Paterson has suggested moving the project further away from the trade center site out of respect for opponents' feelings, while Mayor Michael Bloomberg came out in support of the mosque, calling it a test of the separation of church and state.

President Barack Obama has said he believes Muslims have the right to build the Islamic center as a matter of religious freedom, though he's also said he won't take a position on whether they should actually build it.

The imam leading plans for the center on Friday called extremism a security threat in both the West and the Muslim world. Feisal Abdul Rauf made his comments to Associated Press Television News in Bahrain during a Mideast tour funded by the U.S. State Department, but he wouldn't discuss the uproar over the Islamic center.

Relatives of those slain on Sept. 11 have made their diverging voices heard on a number of issues over the years _ from whether to try the suspects in a civilian court to the location of a proposed freedom museum at ground zero that is no longer planned for the site.

Charles Wolf, who lost his wife, Katherine, at the trade center, says emotions among family members are especially raw right now.

"This is anniversary season. It's really, really hard," the Manhattanite said. "Passions are up and this is bringing up a lot of hurt in people."

He says he worries that any decision to respond to public pressure and move the mosque would be used by extremists to paint Americans as intolerant.

"The powers of evil were piloting those airplanes," he said of the Sept. 11 attackers.

Now, with the mosque dispute, "here is where we're falling into the terrorists' trap ... trying to tear each other apart. Good people fighting other good people - does that sound like evil at work?"

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Associated Press writers David B. Caruso and Karen Matthews in New York and Martha Raffaele in Philadelphia contributed to this report.

Copyright 2010 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.

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Based on his rude-ass butting in on my request to Shareef for more of his opinion on this issue, apparently Jack won't stand for it either.
Jack, I've supervised enough construction projects in my career to know for a fact that you can move something that has not yet been constructed, then build it.

You've used logical fallacies over and over in this debate, so it is my ferverent hope that the rules of logic are different not only below the Mason/Dixon Line, but everywhere else outside of your head.

Your faux concern about my sleep is another example of your use of the concept defined by the "D" word, too.
Ben, this is an open forum, not a face to face discussion. There is no butting in. If that's what you think then open your own discussion. At least that way you can control who responds. Your petulant whining about me butting in is a non-sequitor and a straw man argument, you just want to try and discredit me by bringing up something that doesn't exist. And all this because we disagree on the main issue in here.
Oh and thanks, to WP. Nice to see you've taken your usual neutral and reasoned stance.
You would have thought a comment like this would have offended Bennie's sensibilities and sensitivities. Guess not.
I have, in fact, taken a reasoned stance - as usual - but it's not neutral. Oh, and you're welcome.
I hope that everyone here knows that the land belongs to NewYork City. There for it is up to the people of NewYork city to decide if a Mosque should be placed there.
I hope that everyone here knows that the land belongs to NewYork City. There for it is up to the people of NewYork city to decide if a Mosque should be placed there.

Really? Come on. The building is owned by the group wanting to put the mosque in, it is their property, just like your house/land is your property. Saying NYC owns the land so people have a say would be like your neighbors and other residents of your city saying you should move too because they don't care for your lifestyle etc....and then you should, because after all the people have spoken right? Rights and freedoms be damned, the city owns the land so you have no say right? Come on.
Sorry, I didn't know that they owned the land yet. I guess they just need a Permit from the city to build.
Sorry, didn't mean to blow up (too much)...just been many similar type of responses like that over the course of the bickering, debate, thread.
TIme to unsubscribe now- going around and around with no end in sight....
Nah, Lutan, this too will become a moot point once another gorilla enters the room.
John, I think Lutan is correct. Dogs chasing tails, neither willing to stop, this thread is dead.

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