It seems lately i have seen a lot of females signing up for FFN that have no direct relationship to firefighting. does make me wonder why are they here? looking for a husband or reallly interested in firefighting, ems or police work?
Anyone else get this same feeling?

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Comment by Art "ChiefReason" Goodrich on November 25, 2008 at 2:20pm
I've been married for 32 years, so you're still in the junior league.
I have had several women request my friendship.
I thought the reason was obvious!
Comment by Beverly on November 25, 2008 at 9:08am
It shouldn't matter that there seems to be little or no connection to the service, in this day and age giving out too much information isn't safe, especially if you are a single woman. But they should drop the " lots of cleavage, I'm too sexy for my shirt ( that is barely there) pics" . First impressions are hard to change and looking like a bimbo is not the best first impression.
Comment by Jenny Holderby on November 25, 2008 at 1:26am
If you look at some of the profiles of folks who are active in discussions you find that some of them don't give a lot of information like what department they are with, age, experience, training.
I do think the sexy pics are kind of odd though, like clevage and glam shots. I wouldn't wear that stuff to the fire station so posting them here doesn't make sense to me. But then I've been married to the same man for 30 years so fishing is a little out of my league.
Comment by Paul Montpetit on November 24, 2008 at 9:57pm
Hey Will....I was just joking man......I don't care one way or the other.....Take care....Paul
Comment by Bean on November 24, 2008 at 9:33pm
I know what you're saying, but I think some of those people are truly here for finding out more about the life style of fire fighter/ems. As for the rest of them-let the WEB chef take care of it.
Have you thought on the other side of things-maybe there wouldn't so many non fire fighter/ems women on here if people wouldn't "add" them as friends..??
Don't know, just a thought... But talk to Web chef if it bothers you THAT much..
Good Luck
Comment by Will2745 on November 24, 2008 at 9:25pm
hey Paul,,,i was always tought if your gonna say something about someone say it out loud,,,not behind their for pain or being nuts,,,i think not, and looks like i have many others that feel the same way i do,,
Comment by Will2745 on November 24, 2008 at 9:23pm
i would hope some of you would look at some of the profiles that are posted...they are not conneted to any fire dept, or ems nor police..just a bare profile and thats it,,so, i ask again,,,why are they on this site that is specificly for those of us that are in the mentioned fields?
Comment by Bean on November 24, 2008 at 8:31pm
As a woman FIREFIGHTER, I can tell you that as such I HAD to work TWICE as hard to become "one of the guys"-I WAS NOT (and am not) out to land a husband-I have one. My dad was a FireFighter MANY years ago. I fell in love with helping people. I also am an EMT, drive a motorcycle, scuba dive and run in triathlons-does this mean that because I am a WOMAN that I can not "hang with the guys" or that I am in some small way not as well equipped to do a man's job or that I'm out to "land a man" because I'm on this site? Please...
On the other hand I understand what you're saying about many PEOPLE (noticed I said PEOPLE) on here who are NOT a part of Firefighting/EMS-MAYBE THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN YOUR ARGUMENT? Or maybe they are trying to find out more about the Fire fighting/EMS life? Just a thought.....
Comment by Paul Montpetit on November 24, 2008 at 2:58pm
Will....I have to ask something.....Are you into pain...?? How about verbal abuse...?? No..? then maybe you are nuts....?? Why else would you make a comment like that here in the open...?? Good luck Brother....I think you might need it.....LOL Stay safe.............Paul
Comment by Art "ChiefReason" Goodrich on November 24, 2008 at 1:05pm
anne potter:
I couldn't help but notice that you and I are not friends.
How can that be? Didn't we share a moment with that herbs and spices person?
One of Life's little mysteries.

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