Why is it so easy to fall in love but so hard to be in love

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Comment by anne potter on January 2, 2009 at 11:47pm
Love is such a silly word..Why Why.. Just like the person you are with so much easier in life less heart ache.
Comment by Megan on January 2, 2009 at 2:43pm
Well Art thanks for the comment I agree we all would like a 5 alarm and intimacy happens when we have time give us a fire truck any day I thought for a while he was the right one heart still is heavy but when it happens it will happen and who knows maybe this will be a time for us to become better friends and build more of a relationship thanks to all for the comments and keep em coming
Comment by Art "ChiefReason" Goodrich on January 2, 2009 at 12:34pm
You are asking this question to people who would rather fight a 5 banger than have a moment of intimacy.
That's like asking Charles Manson who his favorite musical group is.
You don't find it; IT finds you.
It found me 32 years ago. We have managed to stay married through the Carter years, Reagan years, both Bushs, Clinton and now Obama.
We started out in a mobile home. If you can survive THAT, you can survive anything.
I am happy to say, we now own a brick ranch style. You can see part of it just behind the motorcycle.
I guess you have to work up to it; you know, trade up, so to speak.
Comment by Joe Stoltz on January 2, 2009 at 6:47am
Megan, one of these days you're going to fall for the right guy, and when you do all of the wrong ones will disappear from your memory.

I'm on my second marriage, and the number of things I've learned along the way would fill a book. Do not hurry the process; cultivate a friendship instead of a purely physical relationship. What Frederick said is true: love is blind.

You may not see it right now, but you will later be thankful that you didn't get tied up with this guy. Married, with kids and a SOB for a husband; divorce, child support, day care for the kids, stress due to separation anxiety when he has the kids; that kind of stuff.
Comment by Megan on January 2, 2009 at 1:38am
well boys and girls i did it agin fell for the wrong guy great guy just not the one for me or so he says im blue crying trying to decied if my heart can break any more
Comment by Engineco913 on January 1, 2009 at 9:39pm
bad economy= more fighting=less sex=less love=more divorce
Comment by Engineco913 on January 1, 2009 at 9:32pm
even if you sink the "opium like" substance will keep you from drifting too far
Comment by Joe Stoltz on January 1, 2009 at 9:28pm
I give up - why is it so easy to fall in love but so hard to be in love?

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