Tim, I was reading your post on Ethics regarding your problem with another FF. I thought I answer on here rather then get caught up in the mayhem of responses you got. First off, no matter what you post on here, you'll going to get wise ass remarks, that inevitable. Just ignore them. I have in in the fire/ems service for more years than I care to remember. During my time I have seen people come and go, for many reasons. This person your concerned about is acting this way because deep within her she knows she can't do this, and is trying to find an easy way out while saving face. My advise if your still around her is to simply nod your head and walk away. Always try to avoid self destructive people. You will find though in EMS that even the best people from time to time seem to go a bit insane, its the stress involved in this kind of work. Good luck though Tim, and if you ever need to talk or chat, let me know. Don