My grandma has dementia and I am one of her pirmary care givers. It breaks my heart to watch her go down hill every day. I don't even thinks that she recogonizes me any more. Lately she talkes about not being here at this time next year, she is such a burden, and everyone around her is dying. I try my best to reassure her but I don't think that she belives me. Since she has gotten worse if her routine is disturbed even a little it throw her into a tail spin. 2 out of 3 of her children want to put her in a nursing home. But I want to take care of her as long as she lives in her house. I promissed my granddad that I would take care of her as long as she lived in the home. Confused and upset with this issue.