I've recently started volunteering some time towards the Moyer Foundation which runs "Camp Erin"  This is a cammp where kids that have lost a family member or loved one can get together and share their feelings with someone going through the same thing.  The foundation has camps set up throughout the country and is the greatest thing with lots of healing activities.  If any members that read this and know anyone this could help, please get a hold of me and I can get them the info they need.   This is for any child through teens, not just a fire related family death.  Thanks everyone, this means alot to me, I've been in their shoes and know this will help the healing.  Thanks again