Lorri
67, Female
Port Jefferson
United States
Profile Information:
- Type of Organization
- Other Response Agency Type
- Job Function
- Other Emergency Services Staff
- Years in Fire/EMS:
- Just Starting
- Primary Fire/EMS Department:
- NYPD
- Years With Department/Agency
- About to begin
- Dept. Web Site:
- http://??????????
- Relationship Status:
- Divorced
- Why I Joined Fire/EMS
- My Dad was NYPD. Life just is leading me here
tony drago
Mar 15, 2008
Bob
Mar 16, 2008
Christopher Smith
Be safe and be well and most importantly, may the both of you be blessed!
Mar 16, 2008
Lorri
She will one day send you all a big hug and thank you herself....
Love you all,
Lorri & Amanda
Mar 17, 2008
Lorri
I had to change my photo to Amanda's. She is just so beautiful that I had to let you all see her. They had to cut her hair short because of the accident, but she is still so beautiful with this glorious face. I wanted you to see who you are all praying for.... This is my baby....
Love,
Lorri
Mar 17, 2008
Brian Evans aka HOT POCKETS
Mar 20, 2008
tony drago
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Mar 20, 2008
Hugh
Mar 22, 2008
Gordon Hennigs
Mar 22, 2008
Bob
Mar 22, 2008
Bobby Shelton
Mar 23, 2008
Ed Curran
Mar 23, 2008
Lorri
God blessed us both the day that I got online with all of you,
Love you all,
Lorri and Amanda....waiting for Wednesday, she comes home on her 21st birthday.... It's gonna be a long road, thanks for staying with us....
Mar 23, 2008
Johnny B
Mar 24, 2008
Paul Howard
Mar 25, 2008
Lorri
She's home with me. Today was her first outpatiant therapy and yesterday was her 21st birthday, but she keeps forgetting. She can't remember where she went for lunch and I get so upset. I need you all to keep praying. Her frontal and temporal lobes were damaged, and the EMT who was with her told me she was in agonal breathing and had no BP and just a small pulse left in her neck and was seconds away from cardiac arrest. The helicopter was in Montauk and when her BP came up to 80/60 she went into full seizure and they couldn't get the tube in until she was at the hospital. Her right leg moves by itself and when she writes with her right hand, the left hand shakes. She always has this look on her face like she's in trouble and she's upset.
I ask her all the time and she says she's not, just tired. I am heartbroken over her. Thank God she lived thank God for EMT's and She is walking slowly and she needs to learn a normal gait again.
She is unsteady and needs guard. Cognetive needs work and I can't believe my 3yr psych major needs help in so many areas right now, just hope it's right now. Please keep praying and we can't thank you enough. She is here and she told me to tell you all thank you so much and she loves you...
Love,
Lorri & Amanda
Mar 27, 2008
Christopher Smith
I'm grateful and relieved to hear that Amanda is home now. I've been praying for you both and I am hoping that with time, all will be as it used to be for y'all. My love and prayers for the both of you are being sent every day...may the Lord bless the two of you. Be safe out there!
Amanda,
FEEDINGTHEDESIRE
Mar 30, 2008
wmason
Mar 30, 2008
Christopher Smith
I'm sure that the EMT's that saved Amand that night were happy to see her and know that what they did was part of the miracle! You too have been part of that miracle as well, by being a wonderful mom to her!!! Just "keep an upward wing" as my grandmother used to say. It means, as I can describe it, to always be hopeful and believe in miracles...the Lord works in mysterious ways". Don't let the heartbreak and worry set you back, she will get better with time. Another one of my grandmother's sayings was "give time, time, and all will be healed". Do not despair and stay strong...Amanda needs you to be her strength at this time! I'll continue to pray for you both. Stay safe out there!
P.S. The graphic I tried to attach to my previous message was a wish for Amanda to "Get Well Soon!", sorry it did not come through.
Apr 2, 2008
wmason
Apr 3, 2008
wmason
Apr 5, 2008
Bobby Shelton
Apr 6, 2008
Christopher Smith
Just stopped by to say hello and I hope that all is going well for you and Amanda. I'm still praying for the both of you. Please let me know how you all are doing sometime soon. Stay safe out there!
Apr 13, 2008
Lorri
We're doing as well as can be expected I guess. For me, my diamond, my most precious jewel that I held in a glass case high above me, was smashed, someone took her and broke the case and scraped her and scuffed her shine, and hurt her so very badly, that I could die of a broken heart.
She is still so beautiful, and there is still so much of her there, but I don't know if she can ever go back to school, she has no short term memory left. Long term is there, most times, but she needs to be prompted, the initiation was damaged too. She did make her bed by herself, she does dress herself. She is the same, yet different. I don't think I can bear this kind of pain, not with my child. I got over cancer, my husbands' death, but I can't get over this, not with Amanda. When it comes time to sleep at night, I get PTSD, the anxiety is unbearable. Why would God let this happen to my third year psych major with the long black hair, and big bright eyes with that quick witt? Why? I was told never to ask this. What am I supposed to do now?
I have no outlet, and I am the one and only caregiver, I can't get away, and if I could, I'd be a basket case not being with her. I wouldn't know how to have fun, or if that is possible.
Thanks so much for your encouragement, prayers and kind wishes, you are true friends, even though we never met. I wish you could all come over, I could sure use the company and the support of talking in person, but I will have to hang onto this. I thank you so much,
Love again,
Lorri & Amanda
Apr 13, 2008
DANNY
Apr 19, 2008
Christopher Smith
I know that it has been a few weeks since my last correspondence to you and Amanda, but I have been busy. I pray that things are getting better for the both of you. Check your mail here on FFN, I sent you a note. I pray that you will take what I've sent to heart and use it.
Chris
Apr 29, 2008
Paul Howard
May 2, 2008
ABRAHAM ALANIS
May 3, 2008
Chan Rivera
May 6, 2008
Christopher Smith
It's been a few weeks since I last heard from you. I hope that all is well with you, and that Amanda is getting better with each passing day.
I just had my last class for engineer training today, now I have to schedule an appointment for my road test with the MVA. Still wondering why I have to know how to paralell park a fire engine, but that is part of the test!
I'm still keeping you both in my prayers and thoughts and would like to get an update on how you'll are doing.
Stay safe out there!!!
May 18, 2008
Bob Lindsay
My thoughts and prayers are with you and Amanda.
Bob
May 23, 2008
Christopher Smith
Just wanted to wish you and Amanda a wonderful Memorial Day weekend. Be safe and both of you are in my prayers.
May 23, 2008
Hugh
May 29, 2008
Tim Meckler # 575
Jun 12, 2008
Jasper Miller
Jun 13, 2008
catfish
Jun 30, 2008
Robert 422
Jul 2, 2008
Christopher Smith
I pray that all is well for you and Amanda. I'd appreciate an update on how you two are doing. Hopefully you both had a wonderful 4th of July and that everything has been working out for you both. I'm still saying prayers for the both of you and I hope that God is smiling upon you all.
Take care and Stay safe out there!!!
Jul 17, 2008
Chan Rivera
Jul 23, 2008
Robert
As for your pics; Someone said your fifty.. They must be on crack.. You can not be 50.. Have a great day. Keep safe.
Aug 10, 2008
ENGINECREW CAPT. aka Pres.FHMC
Oct 8, 2008
Jose L. Gonzalez
Nov 30, 2008
Allen
Dec 1, 2008
Dennis Brown
Dec 1, 2008
dj lee
Dec 1, 2008
Joe Alvarez
Dec 1, 2008
Eric Reeves
Dec 1, 2008
Angie Taylor
prayers are on the way,
blessings be,
Angie
Dec 7, 2008
Dale Dittrick
Feb 2, 2009
anthony periard
Apr 26, 2009