Ok, I admit, Im not the smartest person in the world for moving to this HOLE! But, I do live here right now and I cant get away. Is there any other female firefighters from this neck of the woods? Please let me know and we can chat. Heck even if your not from anywhere near here, give me a shout!
Harry
Harry Rogers
You ask why the snow has me devastated so? Why the winter blues? If anyone enjoys being in their home without any family closer than 850 miles, and just nothing else to do other than watch tv, with no one to talk with at all, then my congrats to them. They are a better person than I am. I was not brought up in this area, I was brought up in New Jersey. I was taken out of my "element" by a woman who I thought was going to be "the one for me" and she found someone on the internet and moved to California. There you are! Any other questions?
Dec 8, 2010
Fabulous Heather Days of Summer
Harbor Springs AWESOME during the summer! slower during the winter...
Do you ski or other snow sports? If not, WHY not? perhaps it is time to learn a new hobby?
Yes - job market sucks for everyone across the country - so you are hanging out in a crowded boat...
Yes - I hear ya, my family lives 3000 miles away. I am closer to my computer of late, than to my family. So I have to work pretty hard to make sure to invest in new relationships - get to know my neighbors - and get involved in many aspects of my community.... otherwise quickly one can end up married to their job...
As far as being trapped - I don't think so. You should be proud that you made a series of choices for the one that you loved... that is admirable... assuming of course that you are not a literal kidnapped at gunpoint victim who was duct taped and thrown in a trunk of a car and "taken out of your element"... AND if you really are a kidnap victim - wink twice and I will contact the FBI to execute a search and rescue party to find you...
and if you need some help with you attacker... let me know... because I know people who could help ;-) with that situation...
But you should be proud that you found someone to love - even for a season - many people never experience that in their entire lives... And you should feel proud that you were able to stand up and make tought decisions to commit to building your relationship - that makes you a great catch for the next girl that catches your eye.
A life does not come to you - you must go out and build it ;-)
And as far as moving - if your heart has returned to Jersey - it sounds like you have discovered your first step in your plan - get yourself back to your heart !!! A job will come up - have some faith! But life is too short to suffer detached from your heart !
And as far as internet fun - wander through the FFN pages and start inviting people to be your friends on here - soon you will be so busy, you will beg to get out of your house. LOL
Hey how close are you to Berrien Springs - some of my best friends live there?
And what types of entities are in your community? What other cities are nearby?
LOL - did I ask enough questions...?
Dec 8, 2010
Harry Rogers
Dec 8, 2010