Sue Okenyi

60, Female

Clovis, CA

United States

Profile Information:

Type of Organization
N/A
Job Function
Other
Years in Fire/EMS:
Neither - I'm an author
Primary Fire/EMS Department:
None
Years With Department/Agency
0
Dept. Web Site:
http://www.healingtheherosheart.com
About Me:
I'm not a member of a fire department or emergency service or peace officer. I am an author - well a one time author. My book is called "Healing the Hero's Heart."

Prior to the September 11 tragedy, I had absolutely no connection to police or fire in any way nor did I know anyone with such a connection. But through the humanitarian efforts of the company I work for, Pelco, I was introduced. They opened their hearts and hands and gave support to the East Coast in many ways. I was blessed to be able to play a small part in it.

I'm a literature services clerk at Pelco. I handle the mailing list for the company trade magazine. After the 9/11 attacks, we sent a special edition to every fire house and precinct in New York to let them know they were in our thoughts and prayers. They began to call in and email. From the day that edition hit their hands in October of 2001 and for months to follow, all I did personally was go into work and pick up my phone and "listen" as members of every rank from all the departments called in to receive more copies of the magazine and to show their appreciation. Each one shared a little of their very personal story. And so I became a listening ear 3,000 miles away.

The response that came into me personally and in to our executives touched the owners of Pelco deeply and caused them to want to do something more permanent. A memorial was created that stands to this day and a lobby of one of the buildings has become a 9/11 museum.

An awesome connection between the people at Pelco, our community, our own first responders and New York was built and will last forever.

I am just one person that got to participate. But one thing more happened that was special for me and brought me deeper into your world. Some of the guys I heard from, made me a confidant. I was 3,000 miles away and they didn't know me, so they could unload. That made it more personal.

My book documents everything as well as I could document it. My life is forever changed because of it for the better. I hope you will check it out and find it a fitting tribute. You can find it on Amazon and on my website: www.healingtheherosheart.com.
Relationship Status:
Married
Facebook or Other Online Profile:
http://www.healingtheherosheart.com

Comment Wall:

  • Don Sims

    Welcome to the nation Sue, from the mountains of E. TN.. Take care, stay safe and have a great week. Thank you for everything.
  • catfish

    welcome to your new family darling
  • Chan Rivera

    welcome to ffn from NY
  • jack lambert

    welcome to ffn from new brunswick canada
  • Tim Meckler # 575

    welcome to the family sue
  • Wendy Norris

    Hi Sue! I finally got around to updating my requests and just read your sweet note about our organization and the work I do as a chaplain. Thank you so much for your kind comments. Your book looks phenomenal! I will hopefully be putting an order in for it in the next week! Keep up the great work!
  • Art "ChiefReason" Goodrich

    Thank you for what you do.
    The public perception that firefighters are made of steel is just not the case.
    Maybe we process bad stuff differently, but I feel that it affects us at some point in many different ways.
    I am grateful that there are people who know and understand the emotional baggage that public servants carry.
    I have been an "ear and shoulder" on many occasions since leaving an active position on the fire department.
    But, it keeps the listener and the talker engaged.
    Thanks again.
    TCSS.
    Art
  • Dennis Brown

    Happy B-day Sue have a good one
  • Dennis Brown

    Well you just relax and have fun wow wish my job would do that lol
  • John

    Thanks for the comment, wow I bet some of those calls you have saved are very touching.
  • LEO AFD389NY

    Welcome Sue to our family at FFN. That was a nice comment that you left me thanks. Have fun be safe and again welcome from New York.
  • Shareef Abdu Nur

    Sue, Thank you for the request and I am honored. It would be my extreme pleasure to answer any questions or concerns you have about our religion. Please feel free to contact me at any time for any reason what so ever. I really look forward to corresponding with you. Again, thank you.
  • Paul Sabaj

    now that you have the first book done any plans for a second. Great web site. Have a great new years
  • Wendy Norris

    Sue- I am so sorry it has taken so long to get back to you about the book! November & December were so hectic and time just flew by! I did get the book and the other items you sent. Just from scanning the book it looks so wonderful! I can't wait to read them. Thanks so much for sending it to me and I will be putting up a link soon.
  • Wendy Norris

    I will be there too...so I will stop by and see you!
  • Paul

    Hey Sue,
    Thanks for the add and for all the kind words above. I did not make the trip to Pelco but spoke with some off the guys that did. They told me, it was amazing what Pelco did for them. I know for sure that you did make a positive difference in their lives, and to see that, made a positive change in mine. Thanks
  • lutan1

    Hi Sue,
    I just checked out your website and went to purchase your book however the postage according to the site, to Australia is $245.00 !!!!!
    Any other suggestions?
  • lutan1

    Hi Sue- private messages are up in the top right corner of your page. Look for the "inbox"- I've just sent you one... :-)
  • Jeff Taormina

    Sue, Thank you. I can feel it trust me.

    Here is a story about what I have been through....
    http://www.firejock.com/Profiles/JeffTaormina_1.htm